discipline

Harold B. Lee: A father may have to discipline his child, but he should never do it in anger. He must show forth an increase of love thereafter, lest that one so reproved were to esteem him to be an enemy (see D&C 121:43). The Lord forbid the feeling of a child that his father or mother is an enemy.

(Book: "The Teachings of Harold B. Lee," 1996, p. 279)